“Are there any shortcuts on how to be beautiful?”
Question submitted by Meredith, 22, London England
There are all kinds of things you can do if you’re interested in how to be beautiful, especially if you’re looking to bag yourself a boyfriend. However, instead of looking for shortcuts, think of it more as an ongoing process.
As the saying goes, “your body is a temple.” The way you treat it and upkeep it will dictate what kinds of men will find it interesting. If you want the kind of men who will appreciate you and enjoy all the little things you do to keep yourself looking great, then you must do what you can to make your temple look inviting. If you don’t need a guy that passionate about you, then don’t worry about it. There are tons of guys like this in the world. You won’t have too much problem finding one near.
The fact remains that first impressions are almost always the only chance you get. The more effort you put into your outward appearance dictates whether or not you’ll even get a chance to say hello.
Do a little experiment. Go to any public place and watch which women guys will go out of their way to talk to. You’ll notice that some guys will talk to anyone, but most guys will talk to the girl who looks like she’s put the most effort into the way she looks. These women have nicer clothes on, more stylish hair, and at least some makeup on.
They might not be the best looking girls in the area, but they are sending out a very powerful message: they are available! Even if they’re not available, the simple act of going through the effort to make themselves look better makes them approachable. Why does this work? In a guy’s mind, anything a woman does to make herself more attractive is an indication of interest. She is showing the world that she’s approachable whether it’s actually true or not.
Anything you do to make yourself look better sends out a signal to the fellas that you are open to his interest. Not only that, on your quest for how to be beautiful, you’ll also discover how to be charismatic, how to be feminine, how to be classy and most importantly, how to be more confident.
Looking good makes you feel good. When you have that great unstoppable feeling of cute confidence, it echoes down into all aspects of your life.
So let’s start with some tips and great places that will help you on your quest on how to be gorgeous!
The Beautiful Marketplace
Love your skin
The very first place you should start with is your skin. It’s the first thing everyone sees so it should be radiant. You should be using some kind of natural skin conditioning product every day.
Sure you could just use any old lotion, but for really incredible skin, we absolutely love the products from SpaLook. With over 3000 awesome products, you’ll definitely find something just perfect for your skin’s health and radiance. Rena got their Clarisonic Skin Care System and can’t tell you how happy she is with it. Sometimes we have meetings at her house just so we can try it out! It is a pretty spendy unit ($195), but it’s a miracle worker on clearing up blemishes and any fine lines that might be developing on your face. Plus it feels like an awesome face massage! Also the Pevonia Enzymo-Spherides Peeling Cream sounds scary but it’s absolutely heavenly in brightening up your skin!
Right now, you can relax away wrinkles with a FREE deluxe sample of Babor Mimical Control Cream + Q10.
Get it with any order of $100 or more. Use the code: MBMQ or if you spend $45 or more, get a FREE SuperSmile Whitening Toothpaste. Use the code: VST
Got wrinkles? Even if you don't now, sorry sister, but eventually we all get 'em. The best kept secret to holding back the wrinkles is to start using wrinkle treatments now. Right now! If you're already going down to wrinkle town,
Chamonix Beauty Secret
has a system that really works. Not only does it firm up sagging skin, it also keeps young skin looking younger for a very long time.
Another great place to visit is Murad Skin Care. There is some serious science that goes into his products that will make your skin look gorgeous. We especially love the Perfecting Night Cream. Just apply it to your face before you go to bed and you wake up with soft, velvety skin that is a perfect start to your day.
Try their Acne Skin Cleanser, guaranteed to clear acne skin.
It is amazing and at $29.95, it’s a steal!
If you have acne, don’t just stop with the skin care systems.
Read this great guide
on how to clear up acne safely and permanently. There are things you can do right away to clear up your skin.
Have beautiful hair
What about your hair? A great hairstyle makes you look and feel fabulous. Do yourself a favor and go to a professional stylist and get yourself a fresh new look. After the new “do,” it’s imperative that you use high quality shampoo and especially conditioner. Frizzy, spazzy, or limp hair makes you look older, unhealthy, or even crazy so take great care of your hair—people notice.
One of our favorite hair care products comes from . They have a great hair system for men and women that helps re-grow thinning hair. Don’t have thinning hair? Who cares? It takes a healthy head of hair and makes it even thicker! If you really want to build some volume into your hair, this system is a marvel.
They have a current coupon code that gets you. Try their products, it makes your hair feel great!
Looking at getting a new style, check out
The Hair Styler.
This amazing website allows you to upload your photoand see you you look with over 7,000 hairstyles and 50 color combinations that perfectly frames your face. This site includes celebrity, short, bridal, and everyday hairstyles!
Smell pretty
Also, we absolutely love getting our shipments from LUSH. You open that box full of bath bombs and yummy shampoo and the whole house is filled with the most delicious scents. This store is more like a “beauty deli.” All the items are handmade and come wrapped like specialty foods. If you’ve never tried lush before, you are going to freak out when you finally do.
Right now, you can get a with every order. Not sure what that means? We’ll just leave you with a wink and a smile…
Your clothes define you
And now for your clothes. What’s going on in your closet? Does your wardrobe say “meow” or does it say “meh?” New clothes always make you feel good, but instead of just looking through the sales racks, you should consider getting a few pieces that showcase your sensuality. It’s time to update that closet and get clothing that fits perfectly and tells the men that you care about how you look and you might let him say “hi.”
Before we tell you about expensive clothes, you need to consider a well-known secret: thrift stores! If you’re willing to drop a few hundred bucks on a few cute pieces, consider you can drop fifty bucks on a whole bunch of great clothes at a thrift or consignment store. It is hit or miss, but when you find something great at a cheap price, oooh there’s nothing better!
And now for our recommendation on our fave place to shop online: Couture Candy! They have all the greatest styles all in one place. Trust us, once you see how much fun it is to shop with them, you’ll probably never go anywhere else. They have free shipping in the US and a price match guarantee so you won’t be paying too much to look so good.
Use this link to on something that will make you look so hot! Work it, girlfriend!
What about that endless search for super cute shoes?
Shoe Buy
has tons of super cute shoes including all the super sexy ones that catch his eye. The best part is that they ship worldwide and they always have some
fabulous shoes on sale!
Keep coming back to find out more products that will help you on how to be beautiful. And don't forget, beauty is also about self-confidence so when you're feeling it, strut it!
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