I Can't Stop Cheating

by Dumpster
(New York, NY)

I feel like a whore!

I can't stop cheating. I've cheated on every single one of my last seven boyfriends. I don't know why I do it, I just get these opportunities and I go with them.

My current boyfriend really is the best guy in the world. He's perfect and soooo nice. We've been together for 5 months now and I'm getting that antsy feeling that I'm going to have to cheat on him and ruin everything again!

I can't figure out why I can't stop cheating and why I've destroyed every relationship I've ever been in including one marriage and one engagement.

It's like right when I feel like I'm comfortable and safe, I NEED to do something to mess it all up. And then that moment I'm hating myself the most and feeling vulnerable, BOOM! Some cute guy shows up and starts flirting with me and it's on! I stop thinking and just want to f@&k this guy silly.

It's not like it's even worth it most of the time. The last guy I cheated with lasted only like 3 minutes. It can't be about the sex really since the guy I'm with is a gladiator in bed! But... I'm getting to that point that I know something bad is going to happen and I'm trouble.

What can I do? I don't want to kill the best relationship I've ever had, but I can't stop cheating. Am I doomed? Help!

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same damn thing
by: HERYKAH

I have the same problem, most guys i been with r awesome but somehow i manage to get into trouble cuz i go with other guys. As u said, is not even the sex. I just cant stop cheating.

I feel bad but again i do it all the time. I know that if somebody does it to me i will just die but i cant stop doing it. I have messed up big time, i was engaged and i cheated with my boss, my friends, ppl from out there and then my bf came to know everything at once and it was really hard for him and i feel so guilty that i even tried to kill myself.

Now am in a relationship with this guy who is fantastic and he loves me and adores me but he lives in an other city and i know that very soon am gonna f^%* up again. How do i control these feelings?

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Same thing
by: Anna

I'm going through the same thing except mine is diff i have only been with 4 guys and only have cheated on the one that hasn't hurt me or cheated on me and the messed up thing is ive cheated on him with the xs that have???? I don't even get why i did it in the first place this is while we have dated and now we have been married for a year. i don't know what is wrong with me ive only slept with one of them and i did something else with the other while we were dating.

so if you figure it out, let me know. i could use some help also....

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Find someone that likes it
by: Canis

Well, maybe you need someone that likes it. I have no idea why I am so screwed up, but I get turned on it a girl I am with has a 1 night stand with someone.

Of course, if she falls in love with the other person, that's no fun.

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Yes You Can Stop Cheating
by: derekcares

We all have the power to change. It's just a matter of becoming less selfish and loving the person you are with enough to want to stop cheating.

Does the thrill of cheating and not getting caught excite you more than your relationship? If so, I would recommend a visit to Restoring Your Relationship Now to began repairing your broken relationship.

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Counseling?
by: Dr. Marcus

Looking for love in all the wrong places...it isn't just an old song. Who broke your heart? That's the main question I would try to answer for myself and then forgive that person...and myself.

So, what ever happened?

Dr. Marcus Rose

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Work on You!
by: Samantha

This will continue to be an issue in your life unless you find out where this issue comes from.

Consider talking to a therapist to get to the bottom of your desire to ruin close relationships. It may be as simple as understanding the issues from your past and not letting them get the best of you.

You know you got a good guy on your hands. Do whatever you can to love and cherish him.

For now, since it might take awhile to figure out your issue, can I suggest you read the book, How to Cheat and Not Get Caught. Might as well not mess with it while you get better...

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