Seducing Men: Grab His Attention With These Seduction Techniques

“I need some skills in seducing men, but the only lousy advice I get is ‘compliment him’.”

When it comes to seducing men, there are right ways and a whole lotta wrong ways. The trick is to be assertive, yet subtle. That’s right, men are as intuitive as a shrub when it comes to interpreting your interest. You could be doing every possible move in the book and he might still be scratching his head wondering if you like him. If you really like this guy, you have to show him a few "indicators of interest."

Show him you are available

So how do you show your intent without looking like a perv? Before we get to the playing with the hair stuff, you have to have the appearance that you are looking for a man. You can’t go to work or school everyday looking like a slob. Many guys have admitted that they were attracted to someone, but gave up because the way she dressed indicated she wasn’t “on the market.”

It’s a common mistake that many women make. Put a little effort into the way you look and show him that you are serious about getting his attention. Don’t you always notice the well dressed men first? That same attraction principle applies to you.

Think “sensual”

Very few women actually interact with men using their sensuality. What is sensuality? For one, it’s not about chatting and blabbing on about things he would never be interested in. Sensuality is slow, graceful movement. Speaking softly in a sexy purr. Watch a cat saunter across the room and rub the length of it’s body along a chair. This is the message you want to send to him.

Another thing that is not sensuality is sexuality. Sexuality is for those girls who are not yet confident in their skills. They dress too slutty with too much makeup and flaunt their womanhood blatantly. Make no mistake, this will get the attention of men. If you’re looking for a one night stand, then tart yourself up by all means. If you’re looking for something a little bit more substantial, then you need to be seducing men with your sensuality.

Sensuality is screaming a confidence in your womanhood and your sexuality without obscene gestures or any words at all. Think about a beefy biker dude. Immediately you assume he’s a cold-blooded killer. He doesn’t have to say a word. He avoids trouble by looking troublesome. Your goal is effortlessly seducing men by being sensual. When you bring this feline energy into a room, he can't help but feel attraction.

Sensuality does not include talking about sex. In fact, any blatant comment about sex, your body parts, or your sexual skills are pretty much a bad idea. Inexperienced men will get nervous and maybe get the wrong idea. Experienced men usually know that talk is almost always just talk and any woman who talks about "their skills" don't really have any.

Shut up

Let your body say the words for you. Let your lips and tongue speak about your kissing skills by subtly licking them. Let the way you move and gently touch parts of your body show that you “know things.”

We are talking about how to seduce a man here! A guy can fascinate you with his words making you feel sexual towards him. This doesn’t work so well with guys. He’s pretty much interested most in your body. Acknowledging this without getting upset and using the way you stand and carry yourself to attract him will make you absolutely irresistible.

Talk to any bartender and she’ll tell you that the guy who talks about how good a tipper he is never leaves a tip! The guy who talks about sex all the time is no good at it! That goes for you too. Like we said, never blatantly talk about sex with any man you haven’t already slept with. It’s the sign of an amateur.

Notice that none of this advice on seducing men involves what you say to him. Because you can never seduce him with your words! Seduction is only about you and your body. It’s a mischievous look. It’s playing peek-a-boo with your menu. It’s slowly touching your neck with your fingertips. It’s the way you move and the unspoken confidence you carry.

If you really want to get good at seducing men, practice walking around while thinking, “I am a sexual prowler.” It makes us all giggle at first, but really explore how it makes you feel. Get into the mind of a sexual prowler and then push that energy outward at the target of your beautiful seduction.